“You may be pretty, and you may be talented, but no one will remember that if you’re mean.” - Katie Holmes In a different time and place I was a mean girl. I certainly wasn’t the meanest of mean girls – but I was mean nonetheless. I wasn’t particularly popular but I hung out with the same few girls and we were a bit cliquey. One of our group traits was to exclude a girl a year. I wish I could remember how we decided whose turn it was to be “on the out” – but I have a feeling it wasn’t really planned. Suddenly, that girl just wasn’t cool anymore. We no longer invited her to events, asked her to sit with us at lunch and generally ignored her and talked bad about her behind her back. At the time I didn’t think much about it or how the “outed” girl felt. I was super tight with the ringleader and never really worried much about my stance. That is, until I wasn’t. One day – my friends no longer wanted to talk with me. They switched...
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